Before We Forget to See
There is a fog that settles on the mind,
A quiet thief that steals us while we sleep—
It dulls the eyes to all we’re meant to find,
And drowns the wonder in a sea too deep.
We do not feel the pulse that keeps us whole,
The breath, the beating heart we take for granted,
Until the sickness comes to shake the soul,
And leave us mourning all the years we wanted.
Our mothers’ hands grow thin, our fathers slow,
While daily sight has blinded us to change,
We measure love in years we didn’t know
Were slipping through our fingers, quiet, strange.
A friend becomes a voice we rarely hear,
A face reduced to habit, dulled by time,
Until the silence tells us they’re not near,
And love returns too late to fit the rhyme.
The sunset paints the same old sky each night,
The ancient oak still stands where no one sees,
We trade our awe for screens of hollow light,
And let the beauty die beneath the trees.
This is the haze that creeps in, thick and slow,
A numbness dressed as comfort, calm, and ease,
It steals the color from the world we know,
And trades our senses for a slow disease.
The ones we’d break in two to lose grow small,
Reduced to habit, background, and delay,
We greet them with a hollow, practiced call,
And let their presence fade, unnoticed, away.
The eyes grow dim, the ears no longer hear,
The taste of joy runs thin, then fades to gray,
We touch the world but nothing feels quite near,
As feeling drains a little every day.
And if this haze is left to spread unseen,
We wake, we walk, we speak, but we are gone,
A hollow shell where feeling once had been,
A breathing corpse still stumbling on and on.
So look again before the flame goes out,
Before the ones you love become a name,
Before your soul forgets what love’s about,

Too numb to feel the beauty or the shame.

…

DCG

“One of the strangest things about being human is how quickly we stop noticing things once they become familiar.
We stop noticing our health until we’re sick. We stop noticing our parents until they grow older. We stop noticing our friends until they’re suddenly gone. We stop noticing the beauty of places we see every single day. And sometimes we even stop noticing ourselves because familiarity has a strange way of making extraordinary things feel ordinary.
The people we’d be devastated to lose become background noise. The blessings we prayed for become things we walk past without a second glance. Nothing changed except our attention.
So look again at the people, at your life, at everything you’ve stopped seeing because it’s always been there. One day it won’t be, and you’ll give anything to notice it one more time.”