Fiction is not the solution

What we take for granted

We don’t appreciate until we experience its loss

In our days in the shadows

Of naïveté

The price of wisdom is always the cost

What is self evident

The ware on our bodies as we continue to age

Just ask the local doctors

Who prescribe big Pharma to patients of the geriatric cage?

But the more interesting question most people don’t themselves ask

The true motivation and intention of their own behavior

As they repeat the mistakes that they should have learned from the past

We are the authors and arbiters of our story

But what is told must be honest and true

Fiction is not the solution

It is the integrity of the biography in my view

DCG

The parable of Gus and the thunder 

The Parable of Gus and the Thunder


Once upon a time, in the small town of Whistlewood, there lived a man named Gus who, for reasons unexplained, always carried a bright yellow umbrella—rain or shine. Now, this wasn’t because Whistlewood was known for rain. Quite the opposite; Whistlewood’s biggest storm was Mrs. Collins’ weekly bridge game.
But Gus was convinced that lightning followed him. You see, every time he tried to be happy—when he baked a cake, the oven short-circuited; when he walked his dog, Bobo, thunder rumbled like someone moving celestial furniture upstairs. The townspeople whispered, “Gus has the thunder spirit!” (which was only marginally better than calling him “the guy whose hair always stands up”).
One day, after being startled out of his nap by a rogue cloudburst indoors (Bobo had overturned the flower vase), Gus decided enough was enough. “Spirit or no spirit, I’m tired of this suffering!” he declared. Which, in Gus-fashion, meant taking his umbrella, a banana, and the spirit of hope to climb Whistlewood Hill—the highest, least thunderous spot nearby.


At the top, Gus shook his fist at the sky. “Why must my spirit long for peace but get static?” he bellowed. The sky, naturally, responded with a clumsy grumble—thunder’s way of clearing its throat.
But before Gus could return to his dramatic monologue, a tiny field mouse climbed onto his shoe. “Do you know why you suffer, Gus?” squeaked the mouse (which was, admittedly, a surprise). “You think the thunder means harm, but it’s just the sky’s way of saying, ‘I’m here!’ You’re longing for peace, but you’re running from all the music life makes.”
Gus pondered. For a moment, the clouds parted, and a ray of sun illuminated only the umbrella’s tip, making it look (in Bobo’s expert opinion) like a very happy lemon.
That’s when Gus laughed—a big, belly-shaking sound. Even the heavens paused. “All this running from thunder and hiding from rain, and I missed the sunshine!” he realized. “What if the longing of my spirit to stop suffering is just my heart wishing I’d join the dance—even if it’s got a little storm?”


So, from that day onward, Gus stopped fearing thunder. He danced in the rain, walked Bobo in the drizzle, and only ever used his umbrella as a limbo stick at block parties. The townspeople stopped whispering, and Gus’s “thunder spirit” nickname transformed into “Whistlewood’s Good Cheer Ambassador (and occasional meteorologist).”
In time, the thunder didn’t stop—but Gus found joy anyway. Because sometimes, the suffering we long to lose is really an invitation to live out loud through storm and sun. And, as Gus would say: “If life gives you thunder, dance until it gives you a rainbow.”


The spirit may long for peace, but it’s not suffering that makes us whole—it’s the courage (and wit) to stand in the storm and remember that joy, like sunshine, may be just behind that next rumble.

DCG

I would have had to pretend

you may not know my name

I provided a service to our community

I was efficient in my job

I was kind when there was an opportunity

I served the public at large

I tendered them with care

I listened to their grievances

Even when nothing was really there

when we place our attention

Only on our needs

We miss out on shared experiences

Living a life only the lonely leads

self absorption is not a badge of honor

If we limit our discussions to ourselves via thought

No audience to convene and explore

Only a one-way ticket is bought 

I would have never seen the world differently

Without the influence of loved ones and friends

I would have never become the person I am today

Without the help from others

I would have had to pretend

DCG

The dream Smith and the doubter 

Parable: The Dreamsmith and the Doubter


In the heart of a bustling city, there lived a Dreamsmith—a quiet soul capable of crafting beautiful visions of futures yet unseen. Every night, he shaped his dreams with painstaking detail, believing that what he visualized could one day become real.


One evening, as he sat sketching a radiant cityscape beneath the moon, a weary man approached—The Doubter, worn down by years of disappointment.
Doubter: “Why do you waste your heart on fantasies? The world isn’t made from visions, but from stone and sweat—and broken hopes.”
Dreamsmith: “The world begins in the mind, friend. Imagine a road: the clearer you see it, the closer you are to walking it.”
Doubter: “But hope can hurt as much as it can heal. What good is dreaming if reality cares nothing for your plans?”
Dreamsmith: “Dreams paint the outlines; actions fill them in. It’s not wrong to dream. Every stone laid was once imagined. Every triumph began as a fragile idea.”
Doubter: “So we are to be fools, then—building castles in the air while ruin nips at our heels?”
Dreamsmith: “Not fools—builders. To dream only is to drift, but to see no tomorrow is to wither. Reality is neither enemy nor friend; it’s the shape we carve with courage and persistence.”
The Doubter sat in silence, watching as the Dreamsmith returned to his sketches, each line bold, each color bright with possibility.
Doubter: “And what if the world crushes our visions?”
Dreamsmith: “Then we stand, dust off the debris, and begin again. Reality isn’t just what happens; it’s also what we dare to make.”
A wind swept through the city, carrying with it the faint scent of hope. The Doubter lingered, feeling for the first time in years the quiet pull of possibility.
This exchange highlights the eternal tension within the human spirit: our yearning to imagine, our skepticism born from disappointment, and the resilience that keeps us shaping reality despite it all. To dream is to risk disappointment, but to abandon vision is to give up the very power that moves us forward.

DCG

Reality check 

It’s not wrong to dream

A future that you can visualize

The more detail you envision

The closer you can realize

It will not be a simple task

It will take consistent work

To manifest a better life

Is not an easy perk

Few will achieve success

Many will simply fail

If we lose our focus and discipline

Then the dream becomes stale

Like anything – if you don’t put in the effort

You may not like the result

If your focus is too narrow and vague

Then it can be only your fault

Along the way

You will face trials and tribulations

You must meet deception and treachery from those you thought you could trust – head on

Without making insinuations

The course of your actions

Are always louder than words

Anything else

Would just be absurd

There will be times

You will need to seek guidance

Go to a well trusted source

Always ask are my values in accordance?

We may box ourselves in with our logic

We wake up years later and realize 

The image in the mirror is not what we thought

This reality check we despise

DCG