The Human Condition

A solution revisited 

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The post “The solution of humanity” wrestles with the limits of human wisdom, the wounds of the past, and the failure of purely human projects to heal the soul, before finally resting in Christ as the only sufficient answer to our fractured condition. The poem below echoes that narrative arc: beginning with a wide search through world philosophies and faiths, then moving toward a distinctly Christian claim about grace, forgiveness, and the cross as the true quintessence of our humanity.


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I knelt before the sutras, drinking silence from their well. .
The Dhammapada whispered: “Guard your mind, it fashions heaven, it fashions hell.” .
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I traced the Tao in rivers, where the yielding waters wind. .
Lao Tzu sang of nameless Way, of empty bowls that feed the mind. .
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I bowed with old Confucius, where propriety patrols desire. .
He spoke of ordered families, of ritual that tempers fire. .
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I walked with dusty sadhus where the Ganges stains the feet. .
They murmured of samsara’s wheel, of breaking from repeat. .
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I sat with Zen companions, watching thoughts like passing rain. .
Koans cracked my logic’s shell, yet could not rinse my shame and pain. .
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These giants lit the mountains, each a lantern in the night. .
Still some cavern in my marrow shivered far from any light. .
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For every path said, “Discipline,” and every sage said, “Try.” .
Yet my will, a tired animal, only knew how to comply or to defy. .
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Reason built its scaffolds, stacked hypotheses like stone. .
But proof could not absolve me for the harm I’d done alone. .
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Some problems yield to data, to equations crisp and clean. .
But guilt is not a theorem, and grief is not a faulty gene. .
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I argued evolution with the fierce, design with trembling friends. .
Yet neither camp could teach my fractured heart how any story ends. .
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The quintessential question haunted every night I couldn’t sleep. .
Not “What is true in abstract?” but “Who can reach me when I’m deep?” .
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My childhood was a fracture, love withheld and love misused. .
A narcissistic mirror where my fledgling trust was bruised. .
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Neglect became my liturgy; I worshiped every fleeting nod. .
Attachment wired my nervous system tighter than a rod. .
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I sought in crowds a savior made of status, touch, and praise. .
But idols built of aching need devoured me in subtle ways. .
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I preached forgiveness to myself, a law I could not keep. .
“Let go, move on, be strong,” I said, then sobbed myself to sleep. .
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I tried to earn absolution, to deserve another start. .
But merit is a cruel god when you have a trembling heart. .
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Then the scandal of a cross cut straight across my schemes. .
Not as mythic consolation, but as judgment of my dreams. .
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A God who enters trauma, not to sanitize the scar. .
Who hangs between the guilty thieves and calls them from afar. .
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“Father, forgive,” was uttered where the nails made muscle tear. .
Not after we improved ourselves, but while we mocked Him there. .
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If there is any solution to this species, wild and torn. .
It will not rise from self-help shelves or from the newest creed reborn. .
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It comes as undeservedness, an offense to every pride. .
The Holy kneels in blood and dust and stands up on my side. .
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Grace is not a concept but a Person with a wound. .
The Logos wearing human skin, in borrowed grave entombed. .
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Resurrection is no metaphor for “try again once more.” .
It is the shattering of final loss, the opening of a door. .
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In Christ, the moral ledger is not erased by lie. .
It’s paid in full by One who chose to feel my failure die. .
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Buddha showed the craving flame, the Tao its gentle flow. .
Christ walked straight into my hatred and refused to let me go. .
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Confucius framed our duties, and the sages mapped the mind. .
But only pierced hands reached the child that history left behind. .
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The solution of humanity is not that we advance. .
It’s that the Author joins the story and is broken in our trance. .
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Forgiveness is not weakness, nor denial dressed as peace. .
It is cruciform surrender where the cycles slowly cease. .
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To love the unlovable is the line I cannot cross. .
Until I see myself there too, forgiven from that cross. .
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Then enemy and victim blur beneath that rugged sign. .
I stand as both, yet strangely held in mercy’s grand design. .
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The quintessential attribute our arguments misname. .
Is not our clever reason, but a Love that bears our blame. .
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So here I lay my systems down, my proof, my pride, my role. .
And rest in One solution: a wounded God who makes a whole. .

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DCG

Life hack #5

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The more you tell the truth

The easier it becomes

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DCG

Portrait of the sophist 

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Reason wears a tie and polished shoes. .

It tap‑dances on a premise it did not choose. .

The speaker clears his throat and strokes his chin. .
He stacks three shaky “truths” and calls that a win. .

“All experts say” is how his sermon starts. .
By “experts” he just means his frightened parts. .

He cites a study no one’s ever read. .
Then crowns his timid hunch as ironclad instead. .

“If A, then B; if B, then surely C.” .
He hides the missing letters where you cannot see. .

He waves a chart like some enchanted wand. .
The numbers all are cherry‑picked and fond. .

He points at you and says your doubt is sin. .
The fallacy is holy when it helps him win. .

He builds a house of logic out of fear. .
Then rents it to the masses for a cheer. .

“Some wolves are bad, so all these dogs must bite.” .
The crowd nods hard; the rhyme makes wrong feel right. .

He juggles terms until they change their name. .
Then swears the rules of reason stayed the same. .

He calls you “fool” for asking what he means. .
Then hides behind big words and canned routines. .

When facts rebel, he shifts the guiding goal. .
The scoreboard moves to keep him in control. .

He quotes a sage he never really read. .
The meme becomes the scripture in his head. .

He paints his tribe as pure, the rest as flawed. .
Then claims this narrow circle speaks for God. .

He cries “Ad hominem!” when cornered tight. .
But smears your name at lunch and sleeps just right. .

Each claim is like a ladder made of smoke. .
He climbs it to the sky and calls it “woke.” .

The joke is that his audience is him. .
He argues with his mirror till it’s dim. .

Yet sometimes in the silence after spin. .
A tiny doubt taps lightly from within. .

He sees one crack along his perfect wall. .
And wonders if that “therefore” fooled him most of all. .

If reason’s just a mask his fear designed. .
What else could grow beneath a humbler mind? .

Perhaps the sharpest wisdom in this fight. .
Is laughing when our “logic” props our spite. .

For every false syllogism we defend. .
We push real understanding round the bend. .

So let the tidy arguments collapse. .
And feel the awkward truth between the gaps. .

Admit you do not know as much as claimed. .
And let that small confession stand unnamed. .

Then reason loses armor, keeps its heart. .
No longer just a trick to play the smart. .

We’ll still be wrong, but less in love with schemes. .
More free to trade our proofs for living dreams. .

If someone sells you certainty for free. .
Check twice which fragile story you agree to be. .

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DCG

My discovery Bridge 

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The post “A Bridge of Discovery” traces a lifetime hunger for love, acceptance, and a deeper, felt truth, showing how this longing evolves from family love to self‑acceptance and finally toward a metaphysical connection that thought alone cannot reach. It frames memory, personality, and spiritual seeking as parts of a single bridge the author is building from rational understanding to a more embodied, heart‑level knowing of reality.
Main ideas of the post
• The author revisits every decade of life (ages 7, 17, 27, 37, 47) to ask, “What do I want most?” and finds a consistent theme of relational love and acceptance. The specific answers move from wanting parental love, to peer acceptance, to forming a family, to receiving love from a daughter, and finally to accepting and forgiving the self.
• Memory is pictured as a “time machine” built from the brain’s vast neural connections, allowing the author to re‑enter earlier stages of life and question those selves. Yet memory is acknowledged as selective and double‑edged, capable of teaching true lessons or hiding lessons not yet learned.
• Across decades, the author notices a preoccupation with “how I fit into the social arena,” which reveals a deeper sense of disconnection and a yearning for a more profound metaphysical bond than ordinary interactions provide. Material wants are set aside so the focus can rest on questions of meaning, belonging, and the soul’s orientation to others and to reality itself.
• The Enneagram personality pattern is invoked as a framework for understanding why the author has always sought deeper connection and why relationships and coping strategies have unfolded as they have. Personality, early disposition, and ego are seen as shaping both the hunger for intimacy and the missteps in handling emotional events.
• The author describes a lifelong search for a truth that can be “felt in your entire being,” not just believed through religious doctrine or rational analysis. Mystical and experiential knowing—rather than purely conceptual faith—is presented as the missing piece, a door that has not yet fully opened.
• The Buddhist parable of the blind men and the elephant illustrates how limited perspectives lead to quarrels and one‑sided claims about reality. This is connected to Heisenberg’s insight that what we observe is shaped by our “method of questioning,” urging the reader to ask better questions and recognize interpretive limits.
• The “metaphysical problem” becomes how to move beyond the reasoning barrier into a shared field of perception and intention with another human being. The author suggests that a “psychic gap” can be bridged by experiences that are felt, not just thought, pointing toward a more holistic engagement with life.
• Classic spiritual and philosophical works (Tao Te Ching, I Ching, Dhammapada, Upanishads, Wittgenstein, Kierkegaard, Sartre, Gurdjieff) are re‑read in this light as potential guides to deeper experience, not just intellectual systems. The author notes that different learning styles (verbal, tactile, visual, abstract, etc.) may mean prior reading did not fully activate inner senses needed to grasp their depths.
• The post closes by emphasizing the need to “undo” conditioning that blocks awareness of being connected to everything around us. The “bridge” being built is explicitly named as “one for the heart,” a path toward discovery through lived practice rather than theory alone.

I went back through the years, like walking through a quiet, borrowed sky. .
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A small boy counting heartbeats, just wanting his parents not to say goodbye. .
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A teenager scanning faces, trading jokes to earn a fragile place. .
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Afraid that if the laughter stopped, it meant he could be erased. .
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A young man holding wedding rings like tiny suns that might not stay. .
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He prayed that starting his own family would keep the shadows far away. .
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A father staring at his daughter’s face, stunned that love could look back too. .
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Her trust rewrote his failures, like morning light correcting midnight’s view. .
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Years later in the mirror, he met a stranger he still called his name. .
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He finally asked for mercy on the man who carried all that blame. .
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The brain became his time machine, with sparks of memory crossing like a storm. .
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He saw how every wire of need had shaped his wanting into form. .
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He traced the threads of friendships, all the clinging, all the flight. .
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He saw a deeper hunger hiding underneath the want to “be all right.” .
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Not comfort made of objects, not the safety of a locked front door. .
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But some warm proof that soul meets soul, and both wake up as something more. .
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He read the mystics late at night, his coffee cold, his questions hot. .
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The words were like a map to lands his reasoning alone could never spot. .
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The blind men touched the elephant and argued over trunk and tail. .
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He heard his own voice in their fight, each partial truth prepared to fail. .
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Heisenberg whispered gently, “You see the world your questions choose.” .
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He realized half his heartbreak grew from what he’d asked and what he’d refuse. .
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For years he worshiped clarity, then learned that love can blur the line. .
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Sometimes the truest knowing comes when logic kneels and steps aside in time. .
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He saw his Enneagram like armor welded from his childhood fear. .
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It kept him safe from sudden loss, but blocked the touch of those who drew too near. .
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He practiced softer questions, ones that did not pin the heart to proof. .
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He let another’s trembling eyes be evidence enough of holy truth. .
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Some nights he felt a Presence move between his thoughts like quiet rain. .
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No thunderclap of doctrine, just a shared, mysterious easing of his pain. .
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The Tao, the sutras, worn-out texts, all opened like a windowed wall. .
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He sensed they were not puzzles, but invitations simply to be all. .
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He started training inner sight, like learning how to breathe again. .
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Trusting that the bridge is built by every honest, open moment with his pain. .
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Now when he meets another soul, half-hidden behind careful glass. .
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He does not rip their fortress down; he waits, and lets their courage slowly pass. .
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He offers solid footing, not a net that steals their ground away. .
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His love stands like a quiet bridge that will not beg, yet chooses still to stay. .
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The span runs from his thinking mind to where his living heartbeat sings. .
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Each step across that trembling space is stitched with ordinary, holy things. .
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He walks it not as one who’s found some final, blinding certainty. .
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But as a human building, breath by breath, a bridge of gentle, waking discovery. .
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DCG

The individual skeptic

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I was born an unfinished question in a house of ready‑made replies.
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They dressed me in their hand‑me‑down whys.
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The TV told me who to be before I knew my own first name.
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I memorized the script and called it “my” acclaim.
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Teachers drew straight lines where my thoughts tried to bend and roam.
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I learned to color in their boxes and called that “home.”
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The preacher thundered doctrines while my doubts sat shivering in the pew.
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I nodded like a bobblehead and called it “true.”
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Friends passed around opinions like a vape we all inhaled.
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We coughed out second‑hand convictions, then exhaled.
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My phone kept buzzing, “Here’s your tribe, just click agree.”
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It sold me mass‑produced rebellion labeled “me.”
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I wore my curated quirks like a neon crown of thorns.
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Still cried at night because I felt like one more clone in uniform.
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I posted “live your truth” with filters hiding half my face.
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Then wondered why my heart still felt out of place.
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Some days I preached free will while running on a leash of fear.
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I called it “God’s will” or “the algorithm,” both unclear.
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I mocked the sheep while checking where the loudest crowd would go.
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My “independent thinking” followed every trending flow.
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At last the joke grew loud enough to wake me from the dream.
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I saw ten different cages painted “self‑esteem.”
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I started asking who gets rich when I erase my doubt.
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And who gets nervous when I finally opt‑out.
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Individuality arrived not with a scream but with a sigh.
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A small, embarrassed “no” that would not die.
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It wasn’t fireworks, tattoos, or moving to a foreign shore.
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It was owning how my yes and no had bent before.
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I felt the panic: lose the tribe and you will surely disappear.
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Yet every honest word drew one real person near.
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I saw my parents’ frightened eyes inside the rules they taught.
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Their love and their indoctrinated fear were strangely wrought.
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I saw my faith was half alive, half armor wrapped in pain.
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I let a little silence fall between the prayers I’d chant by rote again.
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Now I walk this narrow hallway between “belong” and “be.”
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Some doors are locked by them, some quietly by me.
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The comedy is this: I stay a messy social creature to the bone.
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Yet every step toward being real leaves me less alone.
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I won’t be perfectly unique, some mythic island free of tide.
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Just one more haunted, laughing human who stopped completely running from inside.
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If there is any holy act in this bewildered, wired nation’s role.
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It’s signing your own name beneath the script—and then rewriting it in soul.

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DCG

Specious habits of perception 

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When you speak your truth, I hear a different sky. .
Your words are rain, but my history makes them dry. .
You say it was a joke, I feel a hidden knife. .
Your laugh is light, my chest recalls another life. .
We stand in the same room, but wear a different past. .
My shadows move so slow, your joy runs bright and fast. .
You only see the surface, the shrug, the turning face. .
I’m drowning in an ocean you call a shallow place. .
I judge you as careless, you judge me as cold. .
We both are reading stories that were written old. .
My mind collects its proof, each glance a heavy stone. .
I build a quiet prison and then call it “home.” .
Your silence feels like anger, your distance seems like blame. .
But maybe you are frightened, and cannot voice your shame. .
I cling to my opinions like a shield of rust. .
They cut into my fingers while I name them “trust.” .
The mirror of illusion hangs inside my head. .
It shows me what I fear, not what you really said. .
Old injuries awaken when your eyebrows rise. .
I paste a former villain over your new eyes. .
These specious habits guide me, unseen but in control. .
They whisper, “You’re a victim,” and tighten round my soul. .
I notice how I flinch before you even move. .
I’m fighting ancient battles you never asked to prove. .
One day the strain is heavy, the argument repeats. .
We’re circling the same old wound on different streets. .
I feel the quiet cracking of the tale I wear. .
A softer voice inside me asks, “What if you’re not fair?” .
“What if your righteous anger is only half the frame? .
What if your sacred story is just one part of the game?” .
I pause before responding; the script begins to slow. .
A strange and aching honesty steps in and says, “Let go.” .
I tell you, “When you leave the room, I feel erased.” .
You answer, “When I stay too long, I feel displaced.” .
We stare at this new moment like a foreign shore. .
Two private worlds colliding through an open door. .
No one is the villain; the lens itself is flawed. .
We’ve worshiped our perceptions like a quiet god. .
You share the weight you carry, the shame you never named. .
I see how my suspicion kept your heart ashamed. .
We speak of early losses, of nights that shaped our sight. .
How hunger taught us both to fear another’s light. .
The room does not grow perfect; the pain does not dissolve. .
But now we stand together with a will to solve. .
We promise not to worship every thought we think. .
To question quick conclusions standing on the brink. .
To clean the dirty window where our fears have slept. .
To honor what we’ve lived, but not be wholly kept. .
In time, the habit changes, though slowly, line by line. .
Our eyes grow more transparent; your story touches mine. .
I learn that understanding is a costly fee. .
It asks my proud perception not to center me. .
So when I feel that tightening that says, “You’ve been betrayed.” .
I breathe, and ask more gently how this scene is made. .
I look for hidden sorrows behind the harsh display. .
I hold my judgments loosely, let some wash away. .
The specious habits weaken when we dare to see. .
That truth is rarely simple, and seldom just “for me.” .
In this, a quiet mercy rises, slow but real. .
We trade our shrinking armor for a wider field to feel. .
We will still make errors; the old ghosts sometimes call. .
But now we walk more open, less certain of our wall. .
And in that humble seeing, a truer life begins. .
Not free of all illusions, but free to loosen their thin skins. .

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DCG

When a soul touches another

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When two voices meet, something more can arise.
The heart softens gently, stripped of disguise.
We speak not to win, but to understand.
A bridge takes shape, unplanned by the hand.
In the hush between words, meaning breathes anew.
It’s there love enters—only passing through.
I saw your eyes searching for a place to rest.
I gave them silence, and you felt blessed.
No shield, no mask, just a fragile tone.
Your story unfolded, and I felt my own.
The pain you carried was mine in part.
I listened not with ears, but the heart.
You spoke of loss that time couldn’t mend.
I met you there—listener, not friend.
And in that stillness, the world grew wide.
We both disappeared in the tide.
Words were few, yet something survived.
The space between us softly revived.
A sigh, a nod—the language of care.
A sacred knowing lingered there.
Sometimes the cure is not to speak.
But to stay when another feels weak.
You don’t have to fix what’s torn apart.
Just offer presence, soul to heart.
Such moments make the unseen heard.
A truth far deeper than any word.
Each voice we honor shapes our own.
Connection seeds the love we’ve grown.
So when you listen, do it whole.
Let empathy guide, let patience console.
For every answer begins with care.
Every healing breath needs air.
The art of hearing is seldom learned.
But when mastered, the heart is turned.
I write these words as a mirror call.
To remind the listener within us all.

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DCG

My soul compass 

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Lost in the turning, I wander the haze.
The heart keeps seeking a brighter blaze.
The compass trembles, unsure where to steer.
The voice inside whispers, “You’re still near.”
Shadows of failure cling to the skin.
Yet dawn reminds me I’m born to begin.
Faith is fragile, a flicker in bone.
Still, grace leans close — I am not alone.
I walk through tempests with tethered eyes.
Truth unveils how the broken rise.
Love feels distant, its outline torn.
But scars are the proof of a soul reborn.
Attachment wavers, the self unsure.
Yet grace repairs what grief can’t cure.
The mind replays what the heart conceals.
But prayer unmasks what pain reveals.
I falter often, lost in despair.
Then Christ reminds me to cast my care.
The map I drew has burned away.
Still, light breaks through the ash and clay.
Each aching step rewrites my name.
The Lord restores the will to flame.
I gather lessons from every fall.
For bruises can be our greatest call.
Confusion whispers, “You’ve lost your place.”
Yet mercy meets me, face to face.
Bowlby spoke of longing’s chain.
God reshapes it through healed pain.
The insecure heart learns to trust.
When love is rooted beyond the dust.
The anxious soul yearns for hold and keep.
But heaven’s arms embrace so deep.
Each wound a teacher, each loss a friend.
They guide the soul toward its true end.
The chaos swirls, and yet I stand.
For faith was never a steady land.
It’s forged in fire, tested by cost.
Found in surrender, never lost.
The world instructs through loss and strain.
No tear is wasted, no effort vain.
Confusion yields what pride denies.
That wisdom blooms where the ego dies.
The compass spins, yet still aligns.
With truths the heart in silence finds.
We learn by falling, rise by grace.
Reborn, renewed, we find our place.
Every storm becomes a scroll to read.
A script of growth our hearts still need.
The path to light is rough and long.
But the weary soul grows strong through wrong.
So let the tempests bruise and bend.
For they are means, not the end.
In every loss, a sacred clue.
The world refines what is most true.
The compass turns — the heart obeys.
And faith becomes the soul’s new blaze.
We walk through shadow, anchored in day.
For God Himself lights up our way.

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DCG

Lines for a lost map 

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Lines for a lost Map

A coin fell through the cracks of planned design. .
And rolled into a hallway not my own. .

The night revised the script I’d underlined. .
And left me speaking lines I’d never known. .

A letter came that wasn’t meant for me. .
Its ink described a stranger with my face. .

It named my secret wounds in plain degree. .
And traced their origin to time and place. .

A train I meant to catch pulled out too soon. .
Its fading lights dissolved into the rain. .

I walked home underneath a swollen moon. .
And met an old regret that knew my name. .

A friend I trusted vanished in a day. .
Their silence rearranged my inner sight. .

The absence carved a door within the clay. .
Where softer hands could touch the buried light. .

A book on types lay open on my bed. .
Nine windows into storms I’d called just “me.” .

The patterns of my heartbeat could be read. .
As maps of fear and half-remembered plea. .

I saw how anger dressed itself as right. .
How envy wore the costume of a lack. .

How gluttony mistook its hunger’s height. .
For proof that nothing loved would ever come back. .

I watched my pride defend a crumbling throne. .
While sloth pretended numbness was relief. .

Each sin a language pain had made its own. .
Each mask a way to bargain with my grief. .

Yet in the web of all these crooked lines. .
A quiet thread kept glimmering between. .

It shimmered where the worst of my designs. .
Had failed and left a gap for grace unseen. .

The chance encounter on a winter street. .
The job I lost that broke my careful scheme. .

The diagnosis dropping like a sleet. .
That woke me from a long, anesthetic dream. .

These were not proofs of some exacting fate. .
Nor random blows from indifferent skies. .

They were the moments ego learns too late. .
That broken glass can open seeing eyes. .

For when the map I worshiped came undone. .
The living terrain asked for my bare feet. .

I found that every detour from the “one.” .
Revealed another soul for mine to meet. .

A stranger’s kindness at a traffic light. .
A nurse who joked while threading in the line. .

A teacher who stayed talking late at night. .
Until my shame grew small enough to shine. .

Not every hurt was followed by a cure. .
Not every loss returned in sweeter form. .

Some questions stayed like weather I endure. .
Some roads dissolved in yet another storm. .

Yet even there, among the path’s mistakes. .
A lucid tenderness kept breaking through. .

As if the heart, each time it bends and breaks. .
Remembers it was always more than “you.” .

So let the fragile plans still rise and fall. .
Let trains depart and letters go astray. .

The thread runs through the ruin of them all. .
A deeper yes beneath the shifting day. .

Walk on, with maps now folded but not burned. .
Eyes open to the blessings you can’t chart. .

For every fortuitous turn you never earned. .
May yet unite the scattered of your heart. .

And though new anomalies will cross your way. .
And sudden storms erase what you have drawn. .

There is a quiet wisdom in the play. .
That turns each shattered midnight toward a dawn. .

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DCG

Friendship 

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We walked in light once, when the world still listened.
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Our laughter rose like ash from a spark newly christened.
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You said friendship was not built but found in the ruins.
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I thought you meant love, but now I know it blooms in the tunes.
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There were days when silence was holy between us.
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When words would have ruined what truth tried to discuss.
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To be understood is the rarest gift a man can be given.
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Most hearts speak in echoes, few are truly driven.
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We stood beneath the shadow of time’s indifferent eye.
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Beneath its watch, our wounds learned how to dry.
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Betrayal came not like a storm, but a subtle forgetting.
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The kind that makes faith seem too heavy for regretting.
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Still, there is beauty in what remains unspoken.
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In the spaces where old promises lie half-broken.
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I remember the night your silence turned to stone.
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You walked away gently, yet I felt utterly alone.
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Friendship, I’ve learned, is less about staying.
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It’s about returning, when the leaving’s done praying.
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Some souls are moons, caught in another’s orbit for a time.
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Guided not by want, but by a gravity divine.
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And now when I see you in dreams, your face is kind.
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No blame survives the mercy we find.
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True friendship is not two paths side by side—it’s one road shared.
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Worn and cracked, yet somehow perfectly prepared.
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For the next traveler who knows loss, or longing, or why.
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We meet them with open hands, and never ask why.
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So here’s to the ones who stayed, and those who could not.
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For all are part of the fire that friendship begot.
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The ember still burns, quiet but strong.
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And maybe, after all, it was love all along.

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DCG