If “God is dead“ and “we are thrown into the world“
Then “life is absurd“ – and what can you do
Sometimes the more questions we ask, the more we find the more we don’t know
If we follow the paradigm of rational thought 
Nothing more than t our pride is shown
Borrowing breath we never own, Measuring life by the hours that fly, Building faith out of the unknown.
Haunted by clocks that do not sleep,
Our worth unmeasured by their rust,
Our promise deeper than what we keep.
If time is a loan, then let us spend, Not hoard each hour in trembling fear,
But burn our truth until the end,
And hold the fleeting moment near.
For even gods once learned to die,
Their heavens cracked with mortal flame,
Yet mortals learn to testify Through loss, through love, through sacred shame.
We live as thieves of passing breath,
Yet our crime is holy, bold, divine,
For in defying death with death,
We prove that life itself will shine.
So let the borrowed moments fade,
And leave their ache upon the bone,
For meaning isn’t found — it’s made,
Carved fierce from what was never known.
…
DCG
Prologue This poem wrestles with a deep fear many of us share but rarely voice — the sense that life is temporary, and that time isn’t ours to keep. It asks: if everything we love is fleeting, what gives our lives meaning? It challenges the reader to rise up from despair and make something sacred out of the short time we’re given. In other words, it’s about finding purpose in the face of our mortality, not by denying our limits, but by defying them.
When D first saw R, the room did not brighten so much as sharpen. Her presence pulled the air taut, like a bowstring just before release, sound thinning around the edges until all that remained was the quiet hum of his own nervous system waking up. She did not demand attention; she repelled it politely, standing slightly turned away, eyes soft but guarded, like a door on a chain that opens just enough to speak through. He had spent years studying human behavior in books and journals, but in that first moment it was not theory that moved in him—it was recognition, a silent jolt that whispered, “There you are.” Her beauty was not loud. It lived in the fine lines at the corners of her eyes, carved by decades of holding herself together without witnesses. It lived in the way she folded her arms not across her chest, but across some invisible ache no one had ever stayed long enough to see. When she smiled, it was small and rationed, as if joy were a currency she had learned to spend sparingly. Yet to D, that careful smile was the most devastating thing he had ever seen; it felt like a sunrise trying to apologize for arriving. Every time she looked away too quickly, something old and unfinished stirred in him, a familiar echo of a father’s gaze that had always slipped just past his face. The first time he heard her voice, it came out low and precise, as if each word had been weighed before release. There was a faint tremor under the composure, the kind that only someone fluent in fear would notice. To everyone else, she was simply reserved, self-contained, independent. To D, she was a living diagram of every case study he had ever pored over—except this one carried the scent of her shampoo, the warm brush of her sleeve against his arm, the almost-imperceptible flinch when a conversation turned too tender. When she laughed, truly laughed, it had the startled sound of something accidentally unchained. Touch was its own scripture. The first time his hand found hers, it was by accident—fingers grazing as they reached for the same cup, shoulders brushing in a too-narrow hallway, the kind of contact two strangers might forget. But he did not forget. Her skin felt both present and absent, there and already leaving, and his body reacted before his mind could name it: heart racing, breath tightening, that old childhood panic that love was a test he would inevitably fail. He squeezed his own hands later in the dark, remembering the brief warmth of her, and realized his palms were pleading long after he had let her go. In private, when the day was quiet and the distractions had thinned, D’s thoughts circled her like a restless orbit. He would see her face in the half-light of his apartment—eyes turned slightly down, as if waiting for a blow that never quite came. He pictured the way she sat just a little farther away than comfort required, how her body seemed always prepared to retreat, even in rest. He knew enough to call it dismissive avoidance, to trace the contour of her defenses back to some neglected childhood room where no one came when she cried. But knowledge did not protect him. It only deepened his ache. When her name lit up his phone, his whole body leaned forward. When it stayed dark, he stared at the blank screen like a mirror, wondering what flaw in him had gone suddenly visible. Each unanswered message resurrected an old scene: a boy waiting in a doorway for a father too busy to remember he had promised to play. Now he was a man, and the doorway had become a silence between texts, a gap between their meetings, a quiet stretch in which his worth felt weighed and always found wanting. Yet the moment he heard her voice again—soft, apologetic, “Sorry, I’ve just been overwhelmed”—he forgave her before she finished the sentence, like a child forgiving the absence he cannot afford to question. He watched her without trying to. The tilt of her head when a subject veered too close to feelings. The way her eyes clouded over at the mention of mothers, of childhood, of home. The small stiffness in her shoulders when someone offered comfort, as if kindness itself burned. In these details he saw the ghost of a girl who had learned early that needing was dangerous, that the safest way to be loved was to never ask for it out loud. He understood that ghost more than he wished. It was what drew him, what hooked his nervous system into a loop of longing and alarm: her fear of closeness, his fear of abandonment, spinning around each other like planets sharing a wound. Sometimes, when she sat across from him at a café and the light caught the silver in her hair, D felt an ache so fierce it bordered on prayer. He would watch her stir her coffee, fingers steady, gaze drifting to the window as if calculating an exit even from this harmless morning. Inside, another voice rose—unspoken, unvoiced, but loud: Stay. Please stay. Let me be the one place you do not have to disappear. He would nod instead, make a quiet joke, keep his tone light so as not to spook her, all the while feeling his heart kneel behind his ribs. At night, alone, he would replay the smallest details: the warmth of her leg brushing his under the table, the way her perfume lingered on his jacket, the fleeting softness when she had rested her head on his shoulder for barely three breaths before sitting up straighter, as if caught breaking a rule. In those moments, with his eyes closed and his hands pressed to his chest, he spoke to a God he wasn’t sure he believed in anymore: “If there is any justice in how these wounds are written, let mine be the ones that learn to hold, and hers be the ones that learn to trust.” He knew this was not simple romance. It was a collision of unfinished stories. His textbooks called it anxious-preoccupied attachment, trauma bonding, reenactment of early relational templates. Yet those words felt too clinical for what happened inside him when she walked into a room. His pulse did not recite theory; it pleaded. Every glimpse of her, every accidental touch, every fragment of her voice across the line pulled at something raw and ancient in him—the part that had spent a lifetime begging without sound: “See me. Stay with me. Let me prove I will not leave.” And so, each time he reached for her—texting gently, touching lightly, softening his own need so as not to flood her—his body was both scholar and supplicant. The philosopher in him watched the dynamic with grim fascination: the avoidant and the anxious, dancing the same broken choreography he had once underlined in a book. The child in him, however, was on his knees, eyes lifted to the only altar he had ever believed in: her presence. When he saw her, when he felt her, when he heard her voice, his secret, wordless liturgy was always the same: “Open, heart. Open wider. Make room for her fear. Make room for my hunger. Let this love become something safer than the past that made it.”
R and D
R moves like someone always near the door, a lighthouse that forgot what harbors are. Her smile is half a sentence, nothing more, a dimmed and distant, careful, aging star. She learned young that no one came when she would cry, so now her tears are buried deep in bone. She keeps her heart under an unmarked sky, and calls her exile simply “being grown.” D watches from the shoreline of her grace, a boy in a man’s frame, afraid to drown. Her turning away redraws his father’s face, that gaze that always passed him, looking down. He studied every book with trembling hands, Bowlby, trauma, all attachment names. Yet here, his nervous system understands, in racing pulse and chest that hums with flames. R keeps her phone turned face-down on the bed, as if a glow could swallow up her air. Unread messages crawl circles in D’s head, each silence stinging like a whispered dare. She calls it “space,” a need to be alone, a safety in the absence of demand. He feels it as a test of being known, a weighing of his worth in empty hands. At fifty-six, her armor’s finely worn, stitched from every night no parent came. She shrugs off love like some unfitting form, then wonders why her chest still burns with shame. He’s wired to chase the closing of a door, to knock until his knuckles split and bleed.
Old wounds make every parting something more, a reenacted, unremembered need. They meet in coffee shops and quiet light, two strangers carrying invisible wars. She keeps her chair just slightly angled right, so she can see the exits, count the doors. He measures every word before it lands, afraid to flood the room with what he feels. He hides his longing in his folded hands, and filters love through all her spinning wheels. R jokes about her “coldness” now and then, as if detachment were a simple choice. She doesn’t see the girl she was back when no one leaned in to hear her trembling voice. D’s laughter comes a second out of sync, his eyes already scanning for retreat. He tastes abandonment in every blink, and calls mere crumbs of contact something sweet. He knows their bond runs deeper than romance, a trauma-threaded, haunted kind of glue. Old terror choreographs their fragile dance, his reaching out, her disappearing view. His mind names patterns, graphs them in the dark, dismissive lines that cross anxious need. Yet knowledge cannot tame the flaring spark, nor stop the heart from learning how to bleed. He softens how he texts and when he calls, measures each emoji like a prayer. He tiptoes through her carefully built walls, afraid one honest feeling will tear air. She feels his patience pressing at her skin, a kindness that confuses more than soothes.
Love feels like fingers prying to get in, and safe still means whatever never moves. On nights when she allows herself to stay, her body near, but soul still miles away, he feels his nervous system go astray, half wanting her to leave, half wanting stay. His arms remember every time they begged, for one approving glance, one steady gaze. Now R becomes the altar of that pledge, and childhood flares in unfamiliar ways. He lies awake and argues with his mind, that lists their styles like diagnoses read. “Anxious, avoidant, tragically aligned,” yet none explain her laughter in his bed. He loves the way her silver catches light, the map of years that etch along her skin. She is the most beautiful form of night, the dark that makes his wanting glow within. Still, distance carves its canyons into days, the quiet stretches longer than his trust. He starts to fear his love is just a maze, where proof of worth is paid in patient dust. Yet R, alone, still feels that phantom lack, a hunger she has never learned to name. She pushes every reaching hand straight back, then aches inside the echoes all the same. They circle, raw and holy, near the edge, of what could heal or shatter them for good. His heart holds out a trembling, breaking pledge, her fear holds tight to childhood’s haunted wood. D lights a lamp in theory’s crowded room, finds language for the storms inside their chest. He learns that wounds can be a kind of womb, where something safer, slowly, might be pressed. He talks of help, of hands that know the way, of counselors who map these buried lands. Of learning not to chase, nor bolt, nor sway, but feel and speak with unarmored, shaking hands. R listens, eyes turned sideways to the floor, her breath a fragile bridge that might collapse. The thought of trusting love just once more wraps terror in the shape of tender maps. Yet somewhere in the ash of what they’ve known, a small, defiant ember starts to glow. Two weary hearts, less frightened of alone, begin to ask what healed love might bestow. No vows are made, no savior-role embraced, just tiny steps toward naming what is real. Old ghosts are met, not worshiped or erased, in rooms where both can hurt, and slowly heal. One day, perhaps, their hands will intertwine, not out of panic, not from running scared. But as two souls who learned to draw a line between past terror and a love repaired. In that dim light, where old and new converge, they’ll speak their fears and stay, and not withdraw.
What once was trauma’s tight, consuming surge may loosen into something shaped by awe. And D will love without erasing self, and R will rest without the need to flee. With steady guides, and more than willful stealth, they’ll learn a bond where both can finally be.
The Courage to Be Seen We speak of armor as if it saves us, But what of the rust it breeds within? The pitfalls of our social strata, Make honesty both virtue and sin. Layers of taking social inventory, Peeling back what we hide so clean. What exactly do we learn? When learning itself feels obscene. If we don’t stop, we’ll find our frienaissance purgatory, Where trust is traded, and hearts convene. It may take years to overcome our vulnerability, But years are short in the grand human machine. We often think of this as a weakness, Not knowing that gentle hearts are keen. But once you peel back the layers of your protective castle, You meet yourself—unmasked, serene. It can be seen by many as a strength, To tremble and still be seen. The courage to jump in the deep end of a pool, Is to baptize your fear in the in-between. Maybe jumping off the high dive, Is how we wake from our routines. The first time can be certainly scary, Yet fear’s an old ghost dressed in routine. But after you achieve this you then may certainly thrive, For trust grows wild in places unclean. Carl Rogers whispered softly to the trembling, “The power lies in being seen.” In presence, not persuasion, We find the quiet might of the between. When someone listens without demand, You learn your cracks can gleam. Client-centered heartbeats echo softly, Where words mend tears unseen. We expose our fears not to be fearless, But to know they do not own the scene. Fearless is not empty of fear, It’s fear held softly—peace in between. So let’s drop the swords, unlace the masks, And speak where silence has been. For vulnerability is not surrender, It’s the rebellion of the humane, unseen. Trust grows not in safety, But in souls who choose to lean. We are strongest when most fragile, When truth and tremor meet midstream. And maybe courage, after all, Is loving in the open, raw, and clean.
In a quiet valley between two opposing hills, a bridge maker toiled. His hands, calloused and strong from years of patient work, crafted bridges for divided souls.
One day, a wandering woman stood at the edge of his most challenging bridge. She wore an armor of glass—transparent but unyielding. Her eyes, quick with suspicion, darted across the span, mistrusting the gentle arch built for her passage. The bridge maker sensed her pain. He saw the shadows of past betrayals flicker across her face, the silent language of old wounds and silent retreats. “I know why you withdraw,” he said, “and I do not judge the fortress you carry, nor the silence in your step”.
She tested the bridge’s boards with careful toes, ready to dash backward at a creak. She spun reproaches into the wind—gentle at first, then wounding, hoping that the architect would renounce the task and justify her loneliness. But he only nodded solemnly.
“I’ve walked on eggshells too long to blame the glass,” he whispered, “but I cannot lay down bricks upon quicksand. If I were to forsake my own ground for yours, we both would sink into sorrow”.
The bridge maker forgave her stinging doubts—the anxious protests, the cold withdrawals. He forgave because his heart was anchored beyond the valley, where hope and patience dwell. He loved with an open hand, not a closed fist—never forcing, always inviting.
Each day, as the woman hesitated, circling her end of the bridge, he prayed for her healing, erecting gentle boundaries like signposts: “Here stands my care—here lines my resolve.” He did not cross where he was not invited, and he would not tear down his half for the sake of making false peace.
The irony was not lost on him: sometimes she sabotaged the crossings with words and actions, secretly hoping he’d abandon the project, thus proving the world’s unreliability. Yet he remained—not clinging, but present, a friend unafraid to see her struggle and strength alike.
He never promised to solve her fears. The true labor—lifting self-imposed stones and facing the river’s stream—belonged to her alone. Still, his gaze spoke forgiveness; his silence offered rest. If ever she dared to step beyond her glass, she would find the bridge sturdy, the welcome sincere, and the craftsman’s heart steadfast—never forsaking his post, even as he kept his own soul secure.
And thus, the bridge stood—not as a demand but as a possibility, open to her courage, and guarded by his quiet strength.
Once, in a city fashioned of glass and shadow, there lived a traveler whose name nobody called, for he answered to every sorrow. He wandered a labyrinth built not by architects but by the ache of his own convictions—each corridor made of longing, failure, and half-remembered forgiveness. The wind carried whispers: “You are the sum of all you’ve survived. Accept what little kindness knocks.”
One day, the traveler found himself before a great Mirror. Its surface shimmered with the stories of other lives: parents who could not stay, friends who did not notice, love given as if rationed from a stingy well. He stared into it, searching for the line between reflection and reality, and asked, “Why do I remain with those who wound me, who measure out affection in drops, never letting it become a flood?” A voice answered from within the glass, echoing Charlie’s question from long ago: “We accept the love we think we deserve. We let care settle on us like dust, collecting but never cleansing, because we have mistaken familiarity for destiny.”
Days passed. In the city of glass, the traveler’s feet were bruised by sharp truths: patience worn to threads, safety bartered for silence, emotional needs deferred as if unworthy of daylight. Whenever his heart reached for something gentle, memory would wrestle him down, reminding him of every time he let the world teach him what his value was—and how seldom that lesson aligned with kindness.
Irony grinned from every reflection. For the man who most yearned for love was also the one who built the thickest walls to keep it out, haunted by the conviction—taught early, repeated often—that wounds are more reliable than hope. Each time a friend or lover offered warmth, the traveler hid behind old fears, welcoming only what felt familiar, even when it was insufficient or cruel.
Yet, as twilight bled into the labyrinth, he remembered the stories of Jacob and the prodigal son, each haunted by unworthiness who stumbled, at last, into the arms of undeserved grace. In this city, too, redemption shimmered beyond habit’s reach.
And so the traveler faced the Mirror one last time and broke it—not to escape its reflection, but to scatter its prison. With bloody fingers, he learned to reach—clumsy and imperfect, but real—for the love that did not originate in self-condemnation, but in the wild, unearned generosity of being alive. From every shard sprang possibility: communication restored, safety reclaimed, courage reborn from agony. He found, finally, that greatness was neither in what was deserved nor denied, but in the radical act of refusing to settle for anything less than true care. And as he crossed the threshold into dawn, the city’s glass became invisible—no longer a prison, but a birthplace for love neither measured nor rationed, but freely chosen once and for all.
Adrian didn’t know when silence started to feel like a test. Maybe it was the fifth day she hadn’t replied, or the way she smiled when they finally met again—like nothing had broken. That restrained, brittle smile that told him everything and nothing all at once. He met her eyes, but she didn’t linger there. She never did for long. When they first met, Elise intrigued him in a way that felt gravitational. She wasn’t just distant; she was unreachable in a way that suggested danger wrapped in silk. Her calm was armor—the kind that gleamed in candlelight but carried dents from every battle she’d never confessed. Adrian saw it right away, that quiet fracture under the surface. Maybe that’s why he stayed. He told himself he understood her, that patience and warmth would be enough. That if he just didn’t press too hard, she’d feel safe enough to stay open. But the truth was harder: she didn’t want to be seen in her naked pain, and he didn’t know how to stop wanting to heal her. When she withdrew, he felt it like gravity reversing—his chest hollowing, his breath shortening, the perfect replay of every time his father’s eyes had looked through him as if he were made of air. He’d grown up chasing warmth that retreated the moment he reached for it. Now he was doing it again, with someone who flinched from affection like a hand over a flame. Still, he sensed her wound beneath the cool exterior. He’d seen her eyes once, teary and lost, when she thought he wasn’t looking. The dismissive façade slipped, and for a brief flicker, it wasn’t detachment he saw—it was despair. The same despair that haunted his own reflection. He knew about attachment theory, about the push and pull of love between the avoidant and the anxious. He’d read Bowlby, read everything he could to intellectualize what his heart refused to understand. But reading didn’t prepare him for the ache of waiting, for the small humiliations of being the one who always reached out, who always said sorry, even when he hadn’t done anything wrong. She would text in fragments, careful words punctuated by distance. “Sorry I’ve been quiet. Just… overwhelmed.” He would read those words like scripture, searching for traces of affection within restraint. Then he’d feel foolish for wanting more. Love shouldn’t feel like managing someone’s fear of being loved, he told himself. Yet when she touched his arm or allowed a rare laugh, it felt like sunlight breaking through a lifetime of overcast. He would trade anything for those small mercies. Their friends called it complicated. He called it devotion. But lately, it felt like erosion. He’d begun noticing how his chest tightened before he messaged her—the involuntary calculation of how much was too much, whether a single emoji would feel intrusive. He wanted to protect her from his longing. Yet every time he stopped himself from reaching out, a small part of him went quiet too. Still, he stayed. Because she wasn’t cold—she was scared. And he wasn’t needy—he was starved. They weren’t broken people; they were survivors of tiny, invisible wars. That night, as he watched the city lights from his kitchen window, he whispered a prayer—one he didn’t believe in anymore. If she could only see how loved she was, maybe she wouldn’t run. And if he could learn to stop chasing the echo of what he never had, maybe he could stay without losing himself. He typed a message: “Thinking of you. Hope you’re okay.” Then he erased it. And for the first time, he didn’t send another. Outside, the wind pushed softly against the glass, an invisible hand that neither clung nor withdrew—just there, existing, without fear. He closed his eyes and wished he could learn to love like that.
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